Naturally, I like to lead – not only in the bedroom but also, if I can, in the world outside the Kinksphere.
I love to do little side projects and to write and communicate with people of different backgrounds.
I draw a lot of enjoyment from deep discussions about sex, science, politics & the world in general.
I can have a very realistic view but try to have a positive attitude, this is why people experience me mostly as insight and helpful.
I’m never interested in the quick ‘gratification’ thing – my way and how I play is more long-term oriented.
I don’t like one night stands, I don’t enjoy play without commitment and I don’t want to spend time on somebody with the wrong values.
Play is for me about the other person, I like to get to know my submissive, learn about her and create a scenario together with her in which we can mix fun, pleasure & self-improvement together.
I always get to know my Submissives on a deeply personal level and build a relationship with her.
Loyalty & Honesty are the most important things I give & demand from my Submissive.
The bond with my submissive is very important to me – they are the people I trust and they need to be able to trust me, so I make sure to be as transparent as I can…